When you catch your cheating spouse

If you are in a position to catch your cheating spouse in the act, but they do not know that they have been caught, use your head and DON’T tell let them know. We realize how difficult this is to do. You want to confront them, burn their car or hurt them, but if a divorce is in the making, it will be far better for you emotionally and financially if you keep quiet about catching him/her in the act and get a professional to help you document it the next time. The type of proof we gather, unlike your word, is impossible to twist, distort and make unclear. We get video, gathered by a professional who specializes in gathering evidence and has no interest in lying.