Cheating Husband

Are You Married to a Cheating Husband?

Do you suspect that your husband is having an affair? Are you worried you have a Cheating Husband? Your gut is telling you something isn’t quite right. The pain, embarrassment, anger, and other emotions that come storming in when you believe your husband is stepping out on you can cloud your ability to think straight. The devastation of an affair – or merely just the suspicion of it – can render you immobile. The private investigators at ASG are experts in gathering proof of cheating husbands, providing you with the confirmation you need to move on and make choices for your life.

Why Husbands Cheat

Infidelity is not unique to men alone. Women are also guilty of cheating. Some aspects of infidelity, however, are identified as primarily male behaviors or characteristics, and plenty of research on the subject has proven the point.

• It’s just for the sex.

Men are more likely to commit adultery just so they can have sex, whereas women are often looking to fulfill a greater longing than just lust. The physical element often plays a bigger role than the emotional element for men, which is why a common phrase uttered by adulterous husbands may be, “It didn’t mean anything.” To them, it may not have.

• He wants attention.

There are also men who do seek emotional fulfillment – with or without the physical element – outside of their marriage. Rather than address emotional dissatisfaction directly with his wife, or make the effort to carve out time to dedicate to his marriage, a man will cheat instead.

• The marriage isn’t working.

In most marriages where infidelity occurs, something is wrong with the relationship – an element is missing, a connection has been broken, their needs aren’t being met, they’re not having sex anymore. Many cheating husbands will unfairly blame their wives for “making” them cheat. She gained weight. She isn’t as pretty as she used to be. She won’t stop nagging me. She’s only interested in the kids. I don’t get enough sex at home. These husbands seek affection elsewhere, leading to one or multiple infidelities.

• He’s bored.

Most married men have plenty of responsibilities to keep them busy. Relationships, however, do become routine over time, especially when you have young children or are punching the clock at your job. To spice up the monotony, to get a thrill, to satisfy his so-called need for variety, to see what he can get away with, a husband may be more susceptible to the advances of another woman or pursue a woman himself just to see what happens.

• He’s insecure.

Everyone wants to be wanted. A man who has never gotten a lot of attention from women and suddenly finds himself on the receiving end of praise and interest may be more swayed to follow through and commit adultery. Feeling old or feeling like the best times are behind him can also prompt a man to seek sex outside of marriage.

• He blames biology.

Men will claim that it’s evolution that forced them to cheat, that they felt a base desire to spread their seed to as many different women as possible. But infidelity is always a choice.

• He can’t help himself.

Some men seem to have the DNA that predisposes them to commit adultery. This genetic rendering is not an excuse for bad behavior. Whether this man feels guilty afterward or can separate the adultery in his mind depends on the man.

• He’s selfish.

Plenty of philandering husbands are unapologetic about their actions and don’t even bother with excuses. The unfortunate fact is, many men cheat simply because they can. Temptations are everywhere, especially with online dating, social media, and mobile apps that encourage infidelity, or at least make cheating that much easier.